
devan jonas ♥
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first of all stop freaking out. second of all, just be like hey, we should hang out sometime. if she says yes, she likes u....but if she says no, just leave her alone. and u are only her "boyfriend" if she calls u that.
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motoxlife
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haha well if u know she likes some one els then she probably wont go out with u not trying to be mean but u stated it yourself she likes a guy on the football team try spending more time with here and see if she likes u
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trusnow
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yo whatever you do... do not flat out say "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" this is the worst thing to say especially if you dont have a good existing relationship with her. the first thing you want to do is get to know her and become more friendly with her friends (guys and girls). later you can ask that group of kids "hey, wanna go to the movies this weekend?" or "lets get together this weekend". After your friendly with them start making your move on her. talk to her more often, text her do whatever. (not to much it gets real weird, believe me). just play it cool don't be to crazy, but be yourself. start touching her... you can put your arm around her and joke with her... gradually become more serious over time (not the same day)
Things will pick up if she likes you. the biggest thing is just time. establishing a prior relationship. and really just being yourself. i used to have a problem being really crazy and obnoxious in front of girls. this is fine in you want to be a friend but the laid back- true to yourself kind of guy is going to get the girl.
talk to her dont shy away. im only 16 myself and im doing pretty well getting girls being myself. you do the same...
Good luck
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STTDWG
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just say "hey, how about i take you to a movie friday"
and then if the date goes great (assuming she doesn't reject you) ask her "will you be my girlfriend"
just like dat.
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Curiousity <3
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You could still go out! there is always a chance that she will like you! and if the date goes well and if she enjoyed it you could ask her out again!
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Jared P
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If you already know her on a friendly basis then go ahead and ask her on a messenger system like AIM or E-Mail incase you're too nervous to ask her to her face. If she doesn't know you already, then you're left with getting to know her first, then asking later, or being brave and just go for it!
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lauren n
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Well, first of all, if you like her but are too shy to ask her, you can get one of your friends and they can ask her. tell your friend to ask if she likes anyone and that he knows somebodyy who wants to go out with her. Then he could ask her out for you. But, you can always ask her out too if you are brave enough. If you actually do go out and you want to go out again, and you think she had a good time (and you did too) then just go up to her and see if she wants to go out somewhere, but if you already went out then don't get someone to ask her for you, you ask yourself for the second date. I hope you get this lol. good luck!
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Juju
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Whats her name????
Judith is my name.
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U.S. Marine of the Future_92
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Well if she likes someone that decreases the odds by a good amount. My advice to you would be try to become good friends and then ask her out. do not wait a really long time to ask or she might think that you just want to be friends and that would give her too much time to find someone that wants to be in a relationship not just a friendship.
Good Luck
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nikki
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go on a few dates before you ask to be boyfriend and girlfriend
and start talking to her and kinda befriend her for a week or two before you ask her out kay?
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luv2laugh
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well start to flirt w/ her and see wat she does then if she flirts back ask her out
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USE CONDOMS
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Im 13 in 8th grade also and I have been with a few girls and when i want to go out with a girl i like. All you need to do is nott be shy, and weird. If you are shy forget it and die in a hole. If you arent good so just try to do some stuff that are nice and comment on her clothes or help out and then one random day just ask her out and If she says "no" sorry (that happened to me) you will get over it in like 4 days and if she says "yes" then cool. butt now i am single cuz they all dumped me
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BALLR 24
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Just ask her out don't take her to some place too expensive.
Go to the movies. Then after that ask her out again but remember don't ask her to be your girlfriend if you go out a couple of time then you know she is your girlfriend.
Don't talk to her all girly, talk to her in a confident voice.
And don't ask her out when there are too many people around.
I'm 14.
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Libifx3
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I would just go up to her or have a friend go up to her and be like hey__, i really like you and was wondering if you wanted to go out with me?
And hey if she rejects you life goes on.
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Luke F
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if u ask first it will be hard for her to say no just say want to go to the movies and if she says extange numbers
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Clarinda
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I would suggest not asking her out yet. Hang back for awhile, to see if she's really interested- trust me, you'll know. But if she likes this other guy right now, I don't thinks she's very interested in you at the moment, and you don't want to date someone who's not interested in you. Good luck!
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hey its sara from la
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i'd go ahead and do it she'l love u speak the truth lol im sure she'll say YES
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amon amarth14
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just go for it. and if she says no. get the hell out of that small town
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david
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just say hey you wana go see a movie this weekend or something?
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Moyne
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Chances are she wont say yes if you think she likes a guy on the football team. Although she could be acting it up so that you don’t know that she likes you. Really you have nothing to lose so just ask her if she wants to go out with you and whatever you do don’t stress about it…it only makes things worse. Just be calm and cool and casually as her out. Good Luck!
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MIHHZ H
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Say:
Would you go out with me?
Or bring into a corner and say that i have felelings for you etcetc
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cross-stitcher
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You need to slow down. You haven't ask this girl out just and you're
acting like you're ready going together. First things first, why don't
you ask this girl to go bowling, to see a movie, or even grab a pizza
with you. The rest of the stuff can wait until later, after you get to
know her better. Don't rush into ANY new relationship because how
do you know this girl would be the right girl for you?
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OMG!YOU KILLED KENNY!
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id say on the third date you cud be boyfriend and girlfriend but u have to either break the ice and tell her u wanna be boyfriend and girlfriend or make a move on the first date ex:kiss on the cheek
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Soviet Sunrise
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Seriously, just ask her out.
You're 13. I'm 20. I've never asked a girl out successfully.
You're 13. Just do it! Ask her out, go on one date, and if things go well, then you'll ask her out again!
Otherwise, you'll end up like me.
:(
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Ms.Fresh
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Just go up to her and say that you really like her and stuff. And talk to her. Get to know her more. And then ask her out.
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Black Hat
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I'd say ask her to go to the movies, then see if you want to be b/g.
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Tee
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open that thing below your nose, it's called a mouth, and just ask her
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Ninja Monkey
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umm i find that just going up and stating that wanna go out with them works well
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Amanda
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Don't ask if she will be your girlfriend, just ask if she wants to do something like go see a movie sometime. Be calm and confident. Your young and you have lots of time to practice. Just take it slow and remember you have your whole life to date. So don't get too into it.
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green_queen96
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well i would go for it!
just go up to her casually, dont run up to and scream will you go out with me..just start a casual conversation and get into the subject than ask her out....or get one of your friends to do it if your under to much pressure
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