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Steve
15 and about to have about sex?
i've been pressured to have sex with my girlfriend several times. i know she's ready so i feel like i should be too. My friends keep telling me i should just go ahead and do it. I know it sounds wierd for a guy to be saying this but i was brought up thinking i should wait, so please no bull**** comments, i actually need advice. If i shouldn't, why, and if i should, what should i prepare for-shaving, condoms, any help would be great.
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uknown
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it depends im 15 and i would if my gf was ready!! lol
ask her what she wants, shaved or not..but not feels weird trust me...and maybe a drink to calm ya down but nothin to get ya drunk haha..and be careful and ease into her ...good luck

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SnowBoarder24
Thats going to be up to you when it comes down to it. At 15 don't worry about shaving or any of that bs. Im also assuming she's 15 also. If I could have I would have waited.Honestly though I think 15 isnt too young. I lost mine when I was younger than you and so did alot of my friends You may or may not regret it the rest of your life.Its really going to depend on how much you like this girl. Just make sure if you do wear a condom and if your girlfriend has birth control make sure she's on it. Oh and the best condoms are Lifestyles and Trojans.

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mistir lou
yes sir go for it im 14 and have been there multiple times just use a condom and if by some random hellish circumstance she would get pregnant have her take a morning after pill (or get an abortion there not as exspensive as most people think)

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kungicraig
u should def do it. that pregnant stuff rarely happens. n that w8ing for marriage is stupid. its fun so y not? prob trim ur hair down there a bit so ur girlfriend can find ur tool. n buy sum condoms from the supamarket, they sell them 2 any1 and they wont say anything so dnt feel wierd

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Cat P
don't do it if you don't think its right. I have been brought up to wait too. Sex is supposed to be for marraige. so remember that.

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Jewles
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Unless you feel that you are able to take care of a wife and a child. Don't do it. You will be cheating yourself out of a good life. IF you have kids now, you'll miss out on lots of great stuff. Being single is the best. You can dance, party, go see places. Once your married you settle down and don't get to have any more fun. You need to be a man and tell her no. Being a good man is taking responsibility for your actions. Also, it means doing things you may not like to do such as taking out the trash. Loose the girl friend because if she can't wait then that's too bad. Even if you try protection it doesn't always work. Many girls still have a child, even if they used protection. Sometimes the pill doesn't work either. Not to mention all the diseases you can get from having multiple partners.

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{ Optimistic }
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Answer to that is....................... NO

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T
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It sounds like your not ready for that step, and I respect you for that. If you don't want to have sex, ignore what your friends say. It's not their bodies and futures that are being put on the line. If your girlfriend really loves you, she should be able to wait for you. This is not a descision to be made lightly, and it should be up to you, not your friends or your girlfriend.

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Nick S
Personally, I believe that 15 is too young to have sex. I'm 15 and really don't believe I am ready. There's so much about intimcacy that we can't understand. I believe that sex should be saved for marriage, and that if you wait, it'll only be that much better. I know it sounds like it'll be fun or whatever, but you'll probably end up regreting it. If you wait, it'll mean so much more to you. I really believe that sex should be something you're really ready for, and that it should be taken seriously with someone you truly love.
I heard this saying once, about a girl getting teased for still being a virgin: she said, "you can tease me for being a virgin, but just remember: I can be like you anytime I want (a non-virgin). You can never be like me again (a virgin)."

Just think about what i said and make the choice that feels right to you. Let me know what you decide, if you wanna, through email.

Hope i helped. God bless you.

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Derrick
wait into you are married please im also 15 and i have made mistakes and i dont want anybody else to do it so dont let the world preasure you

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bernel1403
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you shouldn't because you will regret it. just make it clear to her. say i like you but i want to wait. if you're not cool with that then maybe we should take a break from each other. i think it's great that you want to wait.

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notyou311
You are smarter than your friends. Don't make a mistake that could ruin your life. No method of birth control is 100% eaffective. Condoms come off or break. Do you want to be a father at 16? It happens all the time. That will be the end of your youth and everything that goes with it.
Tell your friends that you have a mind of your own and you will use your own judgment. Never let anyone pressure you into anything. You will always regret it.

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painisonlyapulse
i've never had sex.
i'll start with that.

do this for me.
think of the girl you're currently dating.
now imagine yourself 20 years from now, thinking back on the one night with that girl.
would it be worth it?
is she special enough to deserve your first time?
if you think she is, go for it.

shave if you think she's into that sort of thing.
don't be silly, protect your willy.
and pull out. (even with a condom)
a mistake is definitely not worth it.

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myst770
You shouldn't do anything you are not 100% comfortable doing. For one thing, you will probably regret doing it. Also, if you are nervous about it, it will probably be awkward and uncomfortable anyways. If you wait until you are ready, you will find that it will be soo worth it.

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Erik
i'm 15 and i say stop!!! Because you know that its wrong and you know you should wait. Yes condoms work, sometimes, and i say don't risk it. I know alot of people that had a child around my age. I think that what we see on tv is what we think is right. Like seeing people have sex all the time and that is bullship

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Fighter1987
if you don't want to then you should not. shave? you have a beard? If you mean shave down there then don't do it that is for girls. As for a condom its very simple. take it out of the package and you slip it on. its like puting a glove on your hand just this glove is shaped for another part of your body than your hands.

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Rocko
Don't do it til you are ready. Its much better to wait til you are 100% than to do it when you're not. Shouldn't be pressured into anything you don't wanna do.

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laur hxc
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ok so im 15 and the best advice i could give you is dont do it!!
at school lately all i see is people messing up thier lives with sex, drugs, and alcohol. and if you're not ready you shouldnt do it. end of story! if your girlfriend is really pressuring you that much to do something you dont really want to do maybe you need a new girlfriend? idk
idk your exact situation and the details.

bottom line:
if your heart says no the answer is no.

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toby
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i think you should wait until your older and dont do it because shes presureing you thats wrong and you'll probably regret it later it might seem like a good idea now put trust me its not

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trackstar
if you're not ready you're not ready!!!!! don't do it because others tell u too or because ur girlfriend wants u too. don't be an idiot and do it. you're only 15 and there's a chance u could end up being a dad. do u want that??!!!

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Mebarak
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Your friends probably think you should because they think it's cool..If you are having any doubts of doing it then you aren't ready.Plus no matter how protected you are, there's always a chance she can get pregnant.Also you should ask yourself, do you both love eachother?I think it's hard to answer that question at age 15.Having sex is for adults not kids.I'm seventeen and I'm still waiting until I find the right person who really loves me in an adult and mature way.I think people should at least wait until after age 18. Please wait, as I said, if you are doubting, then you don't really want it. Just talk to your girlfriend, if she doesn't understand then she doesn't really care about you.good luck

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celtics_fan00
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if you dont feel your ready then dont do it its as simple as that. if your gf truly cares about you she'll understand that you want to wait and be ok with that

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knickers:)
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honestly i would wait.
15 is too young =/ just my opinion.
i had sex about the same age, and i regret it majorly so...idk that's just me, but i would wait if i were you.

hmm you probably will anyways though, so get condoms-obviously. ughh i don't know about the shaving..i've never seen anyone shaved, so..

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cdunkss
hey, im 15 and i had sex when i was 13. so i have no room to talk. You should know if you are ready to lose it up to this one girl. if you truely love this girl i think you should, but if its a thing you just want to get it done with and just to please her than no, if she loves you and if you arnt ready yet, she'd understand and wait until you were ready. honestly do what you are feeling, if it feels right then go for it bruv.

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Elizabeth F
no dont do it! if you tell her your not ready she should understand n if not shes not right for you..... plz wait virignity is gods most presious gift!... sorry if i sound like a dork : )

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Adam R
Dude, don't. I had a kid at 19 years old and your life is your kid from then on. I love my kid but I wish that I would have waited, and had the fun that I wanted to have before I had a kid. I am now 25, and have two kids, if you do be carefull.

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Cribber
Never have sex if you don't want to. That goes for both sexes and any age. So that is that in a nutshell. Make your own determination. If you decide to go for it.. then use a condom every single time. Pulling out, birth control... all of that really is secondary to condom usage. Only condoms protect from disease and only condoms will let you know you have done your part to prevent pregnancy. As far as 'prep work'.... shaving? Uh.. NO. No need, it would just be weird.

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Jen
Don't do it. Any time you have sex, even if you use protection, there's a possibility of getting someone pregnant. Are you really ready to be a dad?

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Adam M
Dude, take my advice. If you don't feel ready don't! The last thing you want is to regret something like this for the rest of your life. It will come around again so there is no need to rush.

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Daddy2b
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Take my advice, if you are not ready simply dont do it. You are 15, no need for sex at this age, wait atleast until your 17 or 18..I would say preferrably married, but that's your right to have sex before marriage and I'm not your father, but if you are pressured just sit down and talk to her and explain you simply are not ready, your decision not hers, she can't force you....if she thinks your -gay- or something so be it, your 15, she will NOT be the last girl you ever have a relationship with.

Hope this helps, take your time and think before you act.

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Ruthie
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If she loved you that much she'd wait until you are BOTH ready. A relationship is all about compromise each person should have the same amount of power in a relationship that means 50/50. If you do it when you're not ready and she is she'll have more power making it not an equal relationship. If you're not ready then that should be the end of discussion and she should respect that in turn respecting you as a person. If you do it when you're not ready you WILL regret it. That's why you shouldn't.

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