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simone	i think it's ok to be sad and crying when you're far away from home. but it shouldn't last too long. find some friends out there and have fun. maybe it's difficult to start but eventually you'll be better and better in it. everything will be OK. Goodluck! ;) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

~me~	You sound like you could be suffering from depression. This is a really common problem and absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Do see your GP for help, who will be able to help you with probably a combination of counselling and anti-depressant tablets if necessary. Try to talk to your parents, too, if you can. This would help alleviate the lonely feeling and also help you because you will have shared your problem with someone who cares about you. Get some help. Good luck :). Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

grafos_sagisag_swasti	you know how to survive alone.maybe yiou will find someone who will be able to understand you.you are still young and will learn more things in the coming future. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Texas Cowboy	You only have so long to live and you are just going in the wrong direction. Don't waste your time with self pity and don't start a drug dependence. Change your focus to helping other people and being attractive...and change mattresses. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

berry	Concentrate on your studies. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cooldude	it is not wrong to be alone, but it is wrong to be sad about it. what you need is a friend. try to find someone who will be with wherever you go. i beliv there are also people with the same age as urs who also wants to hav friends. dont stay in ur room, go out! and dont be afraid to start a conversation with someone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ginnnty	You are having a tough time adjusting to your new surroundings. It is not great that your matress is your best friend. I would suggest talking to a councillor at school. They are usually on campus and are free of charge. There is never any shame in asking for help Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tigereyes2481	Go out and try to find a hobby. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fruitybaby101	get some counceling mom and dad are not always going to be there Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rileryan	You need to get some friends and fast dude. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shh_its me	Depression is normal. Consult with a doctor or a counseler. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ali_auday	i had the same ...at some stage of our life we hate our parents ..then we relieze we were wrong alone or lonly is soemthing bad ..i had that too ..i go walk to meet new friends ..sometiems my friend s an old man sitting with his dog in a park ...or soemtiems he is a young boy riding a bycle ..while iwalk i meet new ppl ...they r not friend..but i consider them as friends ... now i have many friends ..if i walk 1 mile away from my house ..lamost all there are friends ..they know me ... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Corsa_SXI	I'd say you were suffering from depression and I'd suggest you go see a doctor Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stickman	no talk to a doctor in the morning Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

NONAME	Well you dumb EMO, life isn't so bad, at least you are not in a diseased-ridden country with no food, money or family. Does life suck so bad because you don't have a girlfriend?! You should cry, you're pathetic. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Beachboy	Maybe. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sharise	You may have a problem. I suggest going to see a psychiatrist. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bookworm	no Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ben	At your age there is something interesting about being sad or depressed. But why not open your door and experience other people. There are lots of guys and girls thinking just like you at the school you are attending. Tomorrow, turn to the person beside you in each class and say, Hi, my name is........I am new here. I know...I know..if you do this you will find a new friend and not be so alone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Anand S	May B Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kYze	well, talking to yourself alone..might sound kind of bizzare.. but the problem that im really seeing on you is,, you miss your parents badly..is there any way you can reach them?..you might want to call them or ask them to visit you in your dormitory.. you know what, im afraid to turn out that way. im a highschool graduate and now moving to a bigger university for college. i'd be missing a lot of people includng my hometown. but you know what,,if you need someone to talk to,im me sometime, i'd be willing to talk.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pratik	This is more normal than you think. You're afraid to come out of your shell and interact in a world that your parents aren't in. So you stay in bed and cry all day, and you enjoy it deep down. If you didn't enjoy it, you'd go out and change it, wouldn't you? Go out of your comfort zone and experience life. Join a club at school. Make friends with someone in class. Go out and meet someone. Life's happening right now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tashkent	Listen, it's perfectly normal to feel like this when you're not used to be apart from your family. Now that you're alone in a strange place, you may feel isolated because everything and everyone seems so unfamiliar to you. Actually, you don't love to be sad at all, but you may be finding comfort in crying. Hey, that's ok. At one point of time everyone feels that way. Let's not think about GFs for now ok. Let's do something to make you happy again. You know what, your posing this question is a good start! People are giving you feedback and helping you out. In a way, you've made friends. So you know you're not alone. Start slowly and open up to people around you. Speak up in your classes. Get to know the other students and form a study group. I'm sure there are lots of interest groups or sports clubs in the place where you study. Why not volunteer to join any of these? You can enjoy yourself while making new friends. But you know what's important right now? You're there to study so let's focus on that and make sure you do well. When you are happy with your grades, you'll open up to life and people will open up to you. Very soon you won't miss home anymore. That's how I survived, and made it big, at college. You can go back to being your old self again. Good luck! ;) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lard Cherrybakins	you tend to get depressed alot..try an antidepressant...if that dosn't try mailing me...it'll at least remove your boredom Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

libertine	no............take an anti deppressant prescribed by a doctor or try to indulge your time with social activities like going to disco and meet some girls. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

деница	Yes, that is normally for people who are far away from own family. Go out and find friends like you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

veronicagzm	As others have noted here, you are most likely depressed. It is hard to be alone! What's interesting is that you say you "love to be sad". When you start thinking in a certain way, you brain gets "wired" to think in that way. So if you keep thinking sad depressed thoughts again and again, your brain just keeps doing it. You need to see a psychiatrist and get help to "re-wire" your brain to think differently. Do not be ashamed or afraid to see a doctor. Lots of people see a psych doctor. I used to feel the same way you do now. Then I went to a psych doctor. Now (after some hard work and after some time) I feel great! You can feel great too! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pfwilsonus	Aloneness is normal, but ppl are social creatures, that's probably why your matress is your best friend. I suggest that if you ever have a conversation with your matress and it answers back, seek some professional help, or at least find some "situational" friends, meaning ppl that you can talk to while doing certain activities (like waiting for the buss friends, or droppinf off books at the library friends, or rental clerk at the videostore who talks with me about new movies friends). Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Alli	You can meet people in your class? People that have the same common interest with you? Try making some friends in your classes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No