When I lose weight, I will make all you shallow men pay?

Show all answers

Post your answer

Lucine H	Oh yeah!! You go girl! Men suck the f*****g assholes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Diamond	Well, to be honest, I can't say I can relate to you. 'Cause I can't. But I guess I can understand what you're talking about. People are shallow that way by their nature. It's not just weight really. Its looks, assets, etc. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Just Me	So what you are planning is to become thin and then shun others based on what others have done to you? So your saying you want to be a skinny ***? You know, it's just a sad fact that over-eating as well as over-doing anything isn't attractive to most people. Would you talk to the guy at the bar who is **-faced drunk because of over-indulgence? Or would you find it revolting? Same goes for being to thin! OVER DOING ANYTHING ISN'T ATTRACTIVE. You can't be pissed of that a girl has enough self control to diet and exercise and gets the guy. She's making the effort..choose your route, getting the guy or the double-quarter pounder meal supersized with a Coke. Or Diet Coke usually. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Scottyboy	YOU GO GIRL!!!!! I fail to understand why the stigma attached to big gals. They are more often than not far more wonderful people than the stuck up skinny bitches. And like the big girl motto----YOU ARE SHALLOW AND SELF INDULGENT, BUT I CAN DIET. Cheers to ya. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mad Dog Johnson	HEY! I like healthy woman ! A stick girl ain't got what I need! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

joycedomingo	Perhaps, they leave you not because of your weight but because of your attitude. It seems from your post that you are full of it - mean attitude I mean. I am not a skinny girl and have never been a skinny girl. Heck, I weigh 185 right now. I also have friends who are hefty and are in loving relationships. Perhaps you are trying to force something that isn't there and don't want to move forward. I think you need some counseling to let go of that anger. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sunshine92	not to be pointing fingers but you seem awful shallow and judgemental yourself. perhaps because of your "kindness and generousnesses" you should give these guys a chance too. i cant tell if you are speaking of specific guys or just skinny guys in general. i can see that you are hurt and i'm sorry about that but dont return that hurt back to the world, because it doesnt need any more of it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ivar	What matters more is that you are very likely to succeed with your goal of becoming leaner because you know exactly why it is important to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ecamp97	You don't have to be THIN. Maybe no more than 20# over your ideal healthy weight. Your anger will not leave you - probably need Prozac soon. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fitnessjogger	Awesome...I hope you make all men worship the ground you walk on. You can actually blog the whole process on this cool website. The homepage looks a bit incomplete, but the inside features are pretty cool. Good luck and I wish you the best in 2007!!! http://www.bodyrave.com Note: you have to type in the "www." portion in the web browser otherwise you cannot access the site. I think they're gonna fix this soon. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JAY J	I am a big guy, and even though I can relate to parts of your statement, it seems that you have been hurt. You have to make a choice, either keep the hurt going, or let it go. there are consequences to keeping it going, and the onlt one who will lose is you in the long run. I hope that you can feel good about yourself whatever you weigh and make the right decisions reguarding who to get involved with. I will pray that you stop hurting. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

captain2man	I wish you a lot of luck with your weight loss goals. I have weight issues of my own - but - you know what.....I can't blame people for not being interested in me if they're not attracted to me....for WHATEVER reason. I see plenty of overweight girls & guys with boyfriends/girlfriends........so - no matter who are you - there ARE people out there who will find you attractive. We don't live in an ideal world - and being kind & being generous are excellent qualities - but those alone won't snag someone who is more concerned with a person's looks. I'm not saying it's fair - I'm just saying it is what it is. You said a guy left you for a girl who weighed 112 lbs....so - you WERE with this guy.....are you 100% sure that the ONLY reason this guy left you was because he found someone skinnier who came along?? There could be more to it than that - so be honest with yourself - and - if not - sounds like the guy was awfully shallow to begin with - so good riddance...he did you a favor. I understand the feeling of wanting "payback" - but be careful of becoming what you now hate. If you are a kind & generous person - don't now NOT be those things for the sake of payback. A pretty girl who's mean & nasty is someone who will have a lot of one-night stands - but nothing long-term or meaningful, ya know? You're saying a lot of things that don't really make a lot of sense (like stop liking men....can you just decide to "not like men" if you're a heterosexual girl??).............but - I understand the emotion & where it's coming from. I wish you a lot of luck....maybe I'll be one of those lucky guys who meets the new you at some point. Seriously - good luck....but don't let those good qualities fade out of bitterness, ya know? It's much easier to change the outside than the inside. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Boycie	I say good for you! there are too many shallow and plastic people around. I do hope you lose all that weight but remember dont go too far, know your limits. Good Luck for the future :D Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

FairyNice	Ok, I think shallow men deserve to get their *** kicked, but don't be so aggressive to all, you need to find the right guy, he is out there. We all know, that actions count, don't pay attention to how you look. Shallowness only attracts shallowness. =) Peace, and love should be in the heart. Fear and hate far away. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pinky♥Puffin	1. This isn't Yahoo! Comments. 2. You're being pretty shallow yourself. 3. Good luck with your weight loss. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Love Life	It's good to hear that you're not bitter or resentful. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Street Ryda	Lol? how do you know all men are like that? Maybe they talked to the other girls because they wanted to date them? They dont wanna date you, boo hoo... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Emily T	you go girl. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Donna	I know exactly what you're saying. I've been big, and small. No matter what, I'm the same person. However when I have been overweight, I was treated very differently. Then when I was down to under 110lbs. all the men wanted me. LOL. NO WAY. I am with someone that's loved me skinny, and fat............and I am the same happy go lucky person. ~~~ GOOD LUCK HON ~~~ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bob G	Good luck on the diet Plan. But please don't be bitter, it only hurts you. There really are some good guys out there. And the stupidity runs both ways, an overweight guy has just as many problems. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

peaceisjustice2	This is not a healthy way to be nor in the end will it get you the acceptance you want. Also think about it if the guys are shallow hearted it won't effect them enough to make them pay. They would have to have depth of feeling shallow people don't have. And if you did hurt someone then he wasn't the shallow person you were after hurting now was he. Making you just as bad the people you are talking about. The guy who left you for someone that was 112lbs ask yourself this. Why did he really leave you? If it was THE weight issue he would not have been with you in the first place. So more then likely it had to do with a problem in the relationship that was not your weight. While I can understand you are hurt and angry over feeling rejected this course of action is not going to make the hurt or anger less, in fact it may make it all consuming as you will not find the satisfaction of revenge you are seeking. IF you want to lose weight for yourself then lose weight and be happy. If not your only making your life worse and your the one to blame for it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Soulful Kris	Work hard and don't falter. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Forkface	Some people are idiots, others aren't. Apparently you've only encountered the idiots. No need to be spiteful about it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dee	Do it for you not for a man! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ruth D	So when you're skinny you're going to date fat guys to make the other ones pay? Uhhh....I doubt it. Once you're skinny you're going to want to date the thin, attractive guys that ignored you in the first place. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jon L	Great Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

anoldmick	Your rage is in part understandable, but holding onto it will only make you more miserable. Along with your weight-reduction program, seek out some counseling to help you overcome this monumental hatred, because it is even more toxic than your extra pounds. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SKYDOGSLIM	anger will only hurt you. let it go and lose the weight and have fun. if you gain it back have fun also. good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Matt	You go girl! Show those pigs out there what's up! I'm rooting for you! I will always back girls on this! Whoo! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lowa	More power to you hunny, but do you think you can change the world by being mean to any male you meet? Unfortunately, boys will be boys, and although I don't like their perceptions any more than you do, that's what society has encrypted into social norms. Truthfully, you should lose weight because it is technically unhealthy to be overweight, and because it may give you confidence, but not to get back at the men that have hurt you. They may never know the beauty that is within, and it is their loss, but if that is your motivation, then you may be disappointed too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Do You See What Happens Larry?	Wasn't this a movie of the week film back in 1973 that starred Stockard Channing? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No