Okay im 14 and i whant a bf but im fat i weigh 12o what do i do?

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DeNiXiA21	even if you are fat you will find the man just for you.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MENA	not everyone is meant to be thin, just be yourself and be a kind person who takes others seriously and is very diplomatic and fare.. lots of big people have boyfriends, dont worry you may loose all of that extra weight.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vexed4sublime	how tall are you 120 isn't even fat at all. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jin	how tall are you? you might not be fat at all but just keep your eyes open for a man ;D haha at that age though boys can be a little brutal in middle school and all Just strike up conversation with the guy you take interest in and get to know him better then maybe you can tell him one day either way good luck =] Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

soulmusiq25	If you feel insecure about weight i say go do something about it and exercise or you could always try and find a guy that will accept you the way you are if you personally have no problem with your weight. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DR. Steve	Probably you are not fat at 120 lbs. You just have to be your self. Try not to go with a person that would just use you like someone that just wants to make out with you. If you are patient, the right person may come along your path, and if he is brave enough, he might as you out. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hotmomma	hunny you aqre ok as you are!! there is someone for everyone, wait till you find someone that loves your personality, i been big all my life and i dont have any problems finding guys, love yourself for who you are and good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jessikaa :D	120? how tall are you? you might not even be fat. I weigh 127 but im 5'10. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

goodcontributer	120 isnt that fat be confident sometimes good guys can see passed appearance <--- lol cheesy? ye so personality counts alot too Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

catiiee	sweetie, it shouldn't matter what you weigh. you should realise that you are beautiful just the way you are and that you shouldn't change for anyone. If you want a boyfriend you should find one that loves you for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bubblegum588	unless you are like 3'0 tall, you are NOT fat. 120 is NOTHING. at 14, I weighed like 180-200. so you're definitely not fat. don't look for a boyfriend, it only guarantees you won't get one.... let it come naturally. don't think about it, and when it's the right time for you to have a boyfriend it'll probably come to you without you even realizing it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ubuntu_Is_Better	you're just trying to get attention. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Maria	I didn't understand a lick of that, Honey. If what you said is that you weigh 120 pounds, you're not fat, so stop whining and ask a boy out. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

anata_wa_blur	okay....i have experience...i think..but if u want a bf....exercise and also...ur weight should depend on how tall u are. tho....run a half mile a day then a mile a day then on and on or just up to 1 mile eat veggies (yuck) and dont eat to much snacks (hot cheetos. luv em) and stick to that and youll be 105 which is awsome! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ashley K	you are not fat huney. please dont worry. just be yourself and the guys will come to you. and dont be in a rush to have a boyfriend. I wasnt allowed a boyfriend until I was 17 and it benefited me b/c your not ready for a bf at 14, guys only have one thing on there mind, and its best to be older before you date so you can make mature decisions! so for now dont worry the boys will come around in time, and im sure there not not asking you out due to your weight, most guys like a little meat on a girl! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ginabelle7	How are u fat? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

AlexiA	you can be fat and really ugly but if your personality is great you'll get a bf.... never change the way you are for a guy... if he really loves you he wouldnt care if he doesnt why would you wanna be his gf..? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

najj man	Lose wieght if that makes you feel better. But not every guy wants a skinny girl. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RidinHigh	Thats not too big. Sadly most guys at that age want girls for their looks. But just look for someone thats into someone with a good personality. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

warriorcat60	well, lose it..... and any guy who actually likes not will not care how u look. i mean i still like my GF to look nice but she's not a stick insect and thats a good thing in my eyes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nikki Rae	You are not fat. If you think 120 is fat, then I'm a fricken whale. Don't worry about what people in the media looks like. they are always airbrushed, and have professional trainers to keep them looking like that, but they almost always HAVE to look like that in order to be taken "seriously" in their chosen career paths. Besides, any boy who won't go out with someone because that person happens to be a little hefty, well, they are NOT worth the time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CrushSteffy	If you think you are fat, exercise consistently. Not necessarily a lot, just consistently. It will make you feel better about yourself and that will let your personality show. Guys like girls with personalities, not just a pretty face! On the other hand, you're only 14, and you have plenty of time. I know how you feel, but the longer you wait and the more you work on yourself and your personality and YOU as a person, the more awesome of a guy you will attract! I know this probably sounds like total crap, but I wish I knew that when I was your age. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bulldogs_gal10	I hope you are wanting to diet or exercise for yourself and not for someone else! Even though losing weight may increase your chances of getting a boy to like or even love you, you need to remember that you need to love yourself first. I would recommend going for a walk each day in addition to some other type of exercise a few times a week such as yoga, gym, swimming, running, ball sports etc. In terms of diet, just cut down on fatty foods, soft drink and takeaway. Drink plenty of water and eat lots of fruit and veges :) I know it seems like common sense but its true! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Juans girl	first of al doll your not fat. okay. 120 is perfect. its natural to want a boyfriend. Maybe not the best thing to worry about right now. Just focus on school and the right time will come for you. Better said then done though. I hope that helped. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MANJU	choose ur bf like u Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cigaro19	Tell you parents to stop feeding you crap and eat a healthy diet with lots of fruit and vegetables] And definitely no fast food or mcdonalds Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rainbowLIZZARD	your not fat omg Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

★☆♥koolqtツ★☆	OMG, HOW IS THAT FAT? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ł๑\/əЯ	You are too young to have a boyfriend. What do you do? Finish your education, then worry about boys. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Zouk	First of all, you sound too shallow and immature to be ready for a boyfriend. You seem to want a bf for the wrong reasons. Besides, you aren't even fat. You need to get over your self consciousness and learn about what is really important in life before you trouble yourself with unnecessary relationship. I know this isn't what you wanted to hear but you could try taking what might be the best advice of your young life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No